Category Archives: My Kind of Poly

Polyamory on my terms… ymmv

Love and the adventure of defining it

Subtitled: Love… I do not think that word means what you think it means. To start, thank you, ex-girlfriend.  My gratitude is multi-faceted. One, thank you for being ex. Two, thank you for keeping it short. I didn’t have the energy, … Continue reading

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Weakness – A Rant

While I do not think that the person behind the message intended to get me as rampant as he did, I was really bothered with the idea that polyamory is a wise choice for relationships, because, well, humans are weak, … Continue reading

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Polyamory and Swinging and Defining “Open”

I was asked on okcupid recently about the difference between swinging and polyamory. The gentleman who asked the question identifies on the profile as single, and looking for a long-term relationship, but who would not be interested in dating someone who … Continue reading

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Resolutions for Mind, Body, & Spirit

I looked through my facebook Year in Review this morning for 2013, and the basic version of my resolutions stands out: “Accept and be grateful for the past which has helped to define me. Breathe and be grateful for my … Continue reading

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Mission Statements – The How

From Questions to Answer: How will I monitor both my health and the health of my relationships? How will I deal with the need to limit my love?  How will I handle the eventual dilemma between the forces of my heart and … Continue reading

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Mission Statements – The When

From Questions to Answer: When am I available for developing new relationships?  Am I looking for a one-night a month relationship?  Once a week?  Once a year? When will I re-evaluate the answers to all of the questions I have asked myself, … Continue reading

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Mission Statements – The Where

From Questions to Answer: Where am I willing to look for potential partners?  Am I willing to look in the kink scene?  Local?  Long-distance penpals? Where will I want my focus to be?  For me, this answer is perhaps the easiest.  My … Continue reading

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